âWell, well, nobodyâs perfect, butââ âhere Mr. Garth shook his head to help out the inadequacy of wordsâ ââwhat I am thinking of isâ âwhat it must be for a wife when sheâs never sure of her husband, when he hasnât got a principle in him to make him more afraid of doing the wrong thing by others than of getting his own toes pinched. Thatâs the long and the short of it, Mary. Young folks may get fond of each other before they know what life is, and they may think it all holiday if they can only get together; but it soon turns into working day, my dear. However, you have more sense than most, and you havenât been kept in cotton-wool: there may be no occasion for me to say this, but a father trembles for his daughter, and you are all by yourself here.â
âDonât fear for me, father,â said Mary, gravely meeting her fatherâs eyes; âFred has always been very good to me; he is kindhearted and affectionate, and not false, I think, with all his self-indulgence. But I will never engage myself to one who has no manly independence, and who goes on loitering away his time on the chance that others will provide for him. You and my mother have taught me too much pride for that.â