Mr. Taftās mother, though more formal, was also very kindly and made my visit to her home as a bride full of pleasure. The two, the father and mother, had created a family atmosphere in which the children breathed in the highest ideals, and were stimulated to sustained and strenuous intellectual and moral effort in order to conform to the family standard. There was marked serenity in the circle of which Judge and Mrs. Taft were the heads. They had an abiding confidence in the future of their children which strongly influenced the latter to justify it. They both had strong minds, intellectual tastes, wide culture and catholic sympathies.
Not long after we arrived my husband came to me one day with an air of great seriousness, not to say of conciliation and said:
āNellie, Father has got himself into rather a difficulty and I hope I can rely on you to help him outā ānot make it too hard for him, you knowā āmake him feel as comfortable about it as you can. The truth is he used to have a messenger at the War Department in Washington whom he was very fond of. He was a bright manā ācolored, of courseā āand he was very devoted to Father. Now this man called on Father down town today. Heās here on a private car and Father says heās made a great success as a porter. Father got to talking to him, and there were lots of things they wanted to talk about, and besides the man said he would like very much to see Motherā āand Father, who was just about ready to come home to lunch saidā āright on the spur of the momentā āyou understand he didnāt think anything about itā āhe said to this man, āCome on home and have lunch with us.ā Heās downstairs now. Father came to me and said he had just realised that it was something of a difficulty and that he was sorry. He said that he could take care of Mother if I could take care of you. So I hope you wonāt mind.ā