āItās a good thing that Saint Valentineās Day has dropped out of vogue,ā said Mrs. Thackenbury; āwhat with Christmas and New Year and Easter, not to speak of birthdays, there are quite enough remembrance days as it is. I tried to save myself trouble at Christmas by just sending flowers to all my friends, but it wouldnāt work; Gertrude has eleven hothouses and about thirty gardeners, so it would have been ridiculous to send flowers to her, and Milly has just started a floristās shop, so it was equally out of the question there. The stress of having to decide in a hurry what to give to Gertrude and Milly just when I thought Iād got the whole question nicely off my mind completely ruined my Christmas, and then the awful monotony of the letters of thanks: āThank you so much for your lovely flowers. It was so good of you to think of me.ā Of course in the majority of cases I hadnāt thought about the recipients at all; their names were down in my list of āpeople who must not be left out.ā If I trusted to remembering them there would be some awful sins of omission.ā
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