âYou had much better make her a present of something. I bet you never thought of that.â
âYou donât understand, as Iâve told you already! Of course, she is in such a position, but itâs another question. Quite another question! You simply despise her. Seeing a fact which you mistakenly consider deserving of contempt, you refuse to take a humane view of a fellow creature. You donât know what a character she is! I am only sorry that of late she has quite given up reading and borrowing books. I used to lend them to her. I am sorry, too, that with all the energy and resolution in protestingâ âwhich she has already shown onceâ âshe has little self-reliance, little, so to say, independence, so as to break free from certain prejudices and certain foolish ideas. Yet she thoroughly understands some questions, for instance about kissing of hands, that is, that itâs an insult to a woman for a man to kiss her hand, because itâs a sign of inequality. We had a debate about it and I described it to her. She listened attentively to an account of the workmenâs associations in France, too. Now I am explaining the question of coming into the room in the future society.â