Your loss is so terrible that I can only explain it to myself as a special providence of God who, loving you, wishes to try you and your excellent mother. Oh, my friend! Religion, and religion alone, canā āI will not say comfort usā ābut save us from despair. Religion alone can explain to us what without its help man cannot comprehend: why, for what cause, kind and noble beings able to find happiness in lifeā ānot merely harming no one but necessary to the happiness of othersā āare called away to God, while cruel, useless, harmful persons, or such as are a burden to themselves and to others, are left living. The first death I saw, and one I shall never forgetā āthat of my dear sister-in-lawā āleft that impression on me.
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