āAnd so a woman has only two ways out: one is to make a monster of herself, to destroy and go on destroying within herself to such a degree as may be necessary the capacity of being a woman, that is, a mother, in order that a man may quietly and continuously get his enjoyment; the other way outā āand it is not even a way out but a simple, coarse, and direct violation of the laws of natureā āpracticed in all so-called decent familiesā āis that, contrary to her nature, the woman must be her husbandās mistress even while she is pregnant or nursingā āmust be what not even an animal descends to, and for which her strength is insufficient. That is what causes nerve troubles and hysteria in our class, and among the peasants causes what they call being āpossessed by the devilāā āepilepsy. You will notice that no pure maidens are ever āpossessed,ā but only married women living with their husbands. That is so here, and it is just the same in Europe. All the hospitals for hysterical women are full of those who have violated natureās law. The epileptics and Charcotās patientsāare complete wrecks, you know, but the world is full of half-crippled women. Just think of it, what a great work goes on within a woman when she conceives or when she is nursing an infant. That is growing which will continue us and replace us.
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